well hey its been a whole 3 mos ago since i bug this blog ...

been so busy with everything in mah life...but its a healthy thingy...been out of negative tots!!! puro enjoyment ang inatupag ko!!!

got a job

had a nice bday party at sasa's pad

been to freight fest at six flags great adventure...

trick or treating with my hubby and son...

got so many fun days...

and hope i cud update u more...

but til nxt tym..got jewelries too to make...im hooked into this!!!

im a lil bit busy....

deciding..choosing..listing things to do for a church wedding..

oh yeah...our's is on the way!!!

but myt as well REALLY confirm on december or January...if budget fits...

it doesnt give me a prob...bec for me, being with him is enaf, standing and giving oat of love and devotion in front of God is another thing...but ild love to!!!

i know it will rake a gud some of money n time...but its worth knowing everybody is waiting for that moment!

lets just see...i'll keep u guys posted!!!

You really do have to kiss a few frogs before
finding the prince!!!!

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

If you have ANY doubt in your mind about a man's
character, leave him alone.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from
heartache.

Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship
that's not meant to be.

Don't force an attraction.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what
makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not
treating you as you deserve then heck no you
can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a
friend.

Have faith in God regarding your relationship, but
don't let faith make you stupid. God does things
decent and in order.

Don't settle.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is.
If he keeps changing his mind about the
relationship--take that as a BIG sign that he is
unstable. Do you really want to be with a man like
that?
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying
when things are not better.
Honorable men take care of their business and
aren't involved in a whole lot of mess.
The only person you can control in a relationship
is you.
There's only one 'reason' a man dumps you; he
doesn't want you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a
bunch of different women. He didn't marry them
when he got them pregnant, why would he treat
you any differently?
You really do have to kiss a few frogs before
finding the prince.
Always put yourself and your happiness first.
Always have your own set of friends separate from
his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If
something bothers you, speak up.
If he doesn't call, he just isn't that interested.
Be honest and upfront.
Know when to cut the cord, don't be strung along.
Don't fall for the "I'm confused role". Remove
yourself from the situation to let him figure things
out (but don't wait for him, move on).
If you want to have a clue as to how he will treat
you, watch how he treats the WOMEN in his
family (not just mom).
There's more than physical abuse, there's
emotional and mental abuse. If he causes any of
them...flee.
You cannot change a man's behaviors. Change
comes from within.
Don't let him place rules on you that he is not
willing to follow himself double standard.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important
than you are...even if he has more education or in
a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man,
nothing more nothing less.
Demand respect and if he can't give it, he can't
have you!
Don't compete with other woman, but be aware
that men are attracted to what they see.
If you think he is cheating, he probably is.
Confront him right away and if you feel he's lying,
let him go.
Actions speak louder than words.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never rely on a man for compliments, look to
yourself for that.
. Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
Just because he says he loves you, doesn't mean
that he won't hurt you and it doesn't mean that you
are meant to be with him.
To use painful hard-won wisdom -- 'get it right' the
next time.
Know that you deserve to be the number one
person in the life of the #1person in your life.
Love is a verb ...
Learn to give up your lifelong task of trying to make
someone unavailable-available, someone ungiving-
giving, and someone unloving-loving.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him
to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the
bending...compromise is a two way street.
If you don't love self...you can't love anyone else.
You cannot mend someone else's broken heart.
You need time to heal between
relationships...there is nothing cute about
baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a
new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE
you....

I  Wish I were a Child to..........

Just smile at everybody...........

have a nice sleep whereever i am and whenever i want........

forget about the past too easily............

never think of the future..............

be with whoever i want to be with.............

spread the innocence all around...........

make my neighbour envy.......

dream about nothing.................

blabber meaninglessly and be understood.........

hit somebody still don't get them hurt...........

not to dream about my girl much........ :)

dance with my  loved one............

tell someone i'm thinking of them............

listen to someone's heart..........

have no reason to exult...........

be cared by...............

explore every possibility to be nonsense, still make sense........

be with a friend always...........




babble something to console a friend.........

feel possessive of a freind.............

weep in ignorance................

not to hold any grudge..........


spread loveliness...................

* NEVER PUT BOTH FEET IN YOUR MOUTH AT THE SAME TIME, BECAUSE THEN YOU WON'T HAVE A LEG TO STAND ON.

* NOBODY CARES IF YOU DON'T DANCE WELL. JUST GET UP AND DANCE.

* SINCE IT'S THE EARLY WORM THAT GETS EATEN BY THE BIRD, SLEEP LATE.

* THE SECOND MOUSE GETS THE CHEESE.

* WHEN EVERYTHING'S COMING YOUR WAY, YOU'RE IN THE WRONG LANE.

* BIRTHDAYS ARE GOOD FOR YOU. THE MORE YOU HAVE, THE LONGER YOU LIVE.

* YOU MAY BE ONLY ONE PERSON IN THE WORLD, BUT YOU MAY ALSO BE THE WORLD TO ONE PERSON.

* SOME MISTAKES ARE TOO MUCH FUN TO ONLY MAKE ONCE.

* WE COULD LEARN A LOT FROM CRAYONS. SOME ARE SHARP, SOME ARE PRETTY AND SOME ARE DULL. SOME HAVE WEIRD NAMES, AND ALL ARE DIFFERENT COLORS, BUT THEY ALL LIVE IN THE SAME BOX.

* A TRULY HAPPY PERSON IS THE ONE WHO CAN ENJOY THE SCENERY ON A DETOUR.

* YOU CANNOT PLEASE EVERYBODY.

When we yield to temptation, one of the first things we wonder is if God will continue to love us. Knowing that He is still extending His forgiveness to us brings comfort and reassurance. Forgiveness is the cornerstone to the message of salvation. God loves us so much that He sent His Son to die for us so that we might have eternal forgiveness. (John 3:16)

Through His life and death, Jesus did for us what we could not do for ourselves: He forgave all our sin?past, present, and future. Once the cleansing blood of Christ is applied to our lives, then sin's stain is removed. The same is true for all who continue to come to the Lord.

God's forgiveness requires two elements: sin that needs forgiving and Someone who will forgive the offender. Jesus is your advocate before the Father. (1 John 2:1)

When the enemy accuses you of wrong doing, Jesus steps forward and proclaims His faithful, eternal love for you.

There is nothing you can do that is beyond His ability to forgive. He knows all about you life?all your failures and heartaches?and still he chooses to love you. Once His forgiveness is installed, He restores your life and brings hope to every area.

There is no power on earth or in heaven stronger than His love for you. In this you can rejoice!

         THE LORD'S BASEBALL GAME

          Freddy and the Lord stood by to observe a baseball game.  The Lord's team was playing Satan's team.

          The Lord's team was at bat, the score was tied zero to zero, and it was the bottom of the 9th inning with two outs.  They continued to watch as a batter stepped up to the plate named 'Love.'

          Love swung at the first pitch and hit a single, because "Love never fails."
                       
          The next batter was named Faith, who also got a single because Faith works with Love.
                             
 &nbs p; The next batter up was named Godly Wisdom. Satan wound up and threw the first pitch.

                               
         Godly Wisdom looked it over and let it pass: Ball one.  Three more pitches and Godly Wisdom  walked because he never swings at what Satan throws.
                                                 
                       
          The bases were now loaded.  The Lord then turned to Freddy and told him He was now
going to bring in His starplayer.  Up to the plate stepped Grace.  Freddy said, "He sure doesn't look like much!"

          Satan's whole team relaxed when they saw Grace.
Thinking he had wo n the game, Satan wound up and fired his first pitch.  To the shock of everyone, Grace hit the ball harder than anyone had ever seen!  But Satan was not worried; his center fielder let very few get by.


                             
       He went up for the ball, but it went right through his glove, hit him on the head and sent him crashing on the ground;
             
          the roaring crowds went wild as the ball


                     
                 

  continued over the fence . . . for a home run!
                                     
           
  The Lord's team wn!

          The Lord then asked Freddy if he knew why Love, Faith and Godly Wisdom could get on base but couldn't win the game.  Freddy  answered that he didn't know why.

          The Lord explained, "If your love, faith and wisdom had won the game, you would think  you had done it by yourself.  Love, Faith and Wisdom will get you on base but only My  Grace can get you Home:


'For by Grace are you saved, it is a gift of God; not of works, lest any man should boast." Ephesians 2:8-9

   Psalm 84:11, "For the Lord God is a sun and shield; the Lord will give grace and glory; no good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly."

         Jesus' Test              
 
This is an easy test; you score 100 or zero.  It's your choice.  If you aren't ashamed to do this, please follow the directions.  Jesus said, "If you are ashamed of me, I will be ashamed of you before my Father."

      Not ashamed!!  Pass this on, if you mean it.
           , I do Love God. He is my source of existence and Savior.  He keeps me functioning each and everyday.  Without Him, I am nothing,  but with him:

       "I can do all things through Christ
                who strengthens me."
   Phil 4:13

          This is the simplest test . . If you Love God,
          and are not ashamed of all the great things
          He has done for you.  Send this to a few friends.

myt be too busy this coming week., ill post in advance..we'll be back to NJ this monthend....and n thrilled...torn between gudbye n ilove you....sounds real gud song, huh!!!

no, kidding aside...leaving my nanay (mother) alone in our house will be too hard to be happy for...the last tym we left, she is with my brother's care..but now that my bro is with his family in thailand (wer his wife lives), the scenario wud be very very different by this moment...school days will resume this june...my nieces n nephews will be busy with their schooling too not this tym when they r ol cramming up hir in 1 small house during their summer vacations...the 2 oldest will be back too this monthend at cavite...

if only bombz will live hir with us...its EASY...but i know surviving hir in the phils is not EASY...and we ol have to move on and face each life's journey...and i know my mother is so understanding she wudnt beg for eni consideration for us to stay with her...as the youngest and closer to my mom...i know she wants us to stay longer...

it isnt easy...it isnt easy to leave someone behind, specially when its your MOTHER

when u cudnt luk in her eyes...coz immediately tears will run down...no words...no sounds...heart to heart !!!

to those living, presently, and knows philippine island...

i need a suggestion for a reception locaTION....

place preferably is within metro manila or south part....

=) love to hear from you guys!!!!

--Nung ikaw ay bata... nagawa mo ba to?--

*kumakain ka ba ng aratilis?

*nagpipitpit ng gumamela para gawing soapy
bubbles na hihipanmo sa binilog na tanggkay
ng walis tingting?

*pinipilit ka ba matulog ng nanay mo pag hapon at
di ka papayagan maglaro pag di ka natulog?

*marunong ka magpatintero, saksak puso,
langit-lupa, teleber-teleber, luksong tinik?

*malupit ka pag meron kang atari, family computer
or nes?

*alam mo ang silbi ng up, up, down, down, left,
right, left, right, a, b, a, b, start?

*may mga damit ka na U.S.E.D., Boy London,
Cross Colors, Esprit, Blowing Bubbles at
pag nakakakita ka ng Bench na damit eh naalala
mo si Richard Gomez?

*addict ka sa rainbow brite, carebears, my little
pony, thundercats, bioman, voltes v, mazinger z, daimos, he-man at
marami pang cartoons na hindi pa
translated sa tagalog?

*nanonood ka ng shaider kasi nabobosohan mo si
annie at type na type mo ang puting panty nya?

*marunong ka mag wordstar at nakahawak ka na
talaga ng 5.25 na floppy disk?

*inaabangan mo lagi ang batibot at akala mo
magkakatuluyan si kuya bodgie at ate sienna...
nung high school ka inaabangan mo lagi beverly
hills 90210?

*gumagamit ka ng AQUANET para pataasin ang
bangs mo?

*meron kang blouse na may padding kung babae
ka at meron kang sapatos na mighty kid kung
lalake ka?


*idol mo si McGyver at nanonood kang perfect
strangers?

*eto malupet... six digits! lang ba ang phone
number nyo dati?

*nakakatawag ka pa sa pay phone ng 3
bentesingko lang ang dala?

*cute pa si aiza seguerra sa eat bulaga at alam mo
ang song na "eh kasi bata"?
*inabutan mo ba na ang Magnolia Chocolait eh
nasa glass bottle pa na ginagawang lalagyan
ng tubig ng nanay mo sa ref?

*meron kang pencil case na maraming
compartments na pinagyayabang mo sa mga
kaklase mo?

*noon mo pa hinahanap kung saan ang Goya Fun
Factory?

*alam mo lyrics ng "tinapang bangus" at
"alagang-alaga namin si puti"?

*alam mo ang kantang "gloria labandera"..
lumusong sha sa tubig ang paa ay nabasa
at ang "1, 2, 3, asawa ni marie"... hehehehehe?

*sosyal ka pag may play-doh ka at Lego... at
nag-iipon ka ng G.I. Joe action figures at iba pa
ang mukha ni barbie noon?

*inabutan mo pa yung singkong korteng bulaklak at
yung diyes na square?

*lumaki kang bobo dahil ang akala mo nangangagat
talaga ang alimango sa kantang tong-tong-tong...
diba naninipit yun?

*alam mo yung kwento ng pari na binigyan ng pera
yung batang umakyat ng puno para bumili ng
panty... and shempre, alam mo rin ba kung ano
binigay nya sa nanay nung umakyat ng puno?

*meron kang kabisadong kanta ni andrew e na
alam mo hanggang ngayon.. aminin?

*laging lampin ang sinasapin sa likod mo pag
pinapawisan ka?

*bumibili ka ng tarzan, texas at bazooka bubble
gum... tira-tira, at yung kending bilog na
sinawsaw sa asukal?

*kinukupit mo pa at nanonood ka ng mga porno
tapes ng tatay mo na nasa BETAMAX format pa...
at sanay ka tawagin ang porni as BOLD?

*takot ka dumating ang year 2000 dahil sabi nla
magugunaw daw ang mundo?

KUNG ALAM MO LAHAT DITO LAGPAS KA NA
NG 25 YEARS OLD... KAPAG HALOS LAHAT
ALAM MO, NASA 23-25 KA...

WAG KA NA MAG DENY.. TUMAWA KA NA
LANG... DIBA .75CENTAVOS PA LANG
PAMASAHE SA JEEP NUN AT MAS MASARAP
ANG MELLOW YELLOW KESA MOUNTAIN DEW? HAHAHAHAH

ha ha ha

what is with me ryt now...if ur in mah shoes..errrr, tsinelas(filipino footwear) u wud go ga-ga over my niecesn nephews (they r 5...) dealing wid them daily...and 6th wud be mah precious bebe romart...6 kiddos in da haus! whalah!...but well...they r not olweis hard-to-understand/deal with...u hafto love them to be able to cope up...and yeah...i know u may think im a bit under too stressful eniviro na-uh...we r family and talikng and eating and laughing wid them is such a blessing...

at the end of the day, i feel exhausted playing round wid them..together wid my son..hu loves to ride a biggy bike and ignoring the kiddie one...hu walks barefoot with only sando he wears...(KWATOG!)..i loveseeing him so innocent and PURE...hope it will last timeless...(asapa!)

to end a lil joyous day...got a really relaxing day..went to a MALL, while they try to beat tons of tickets at tom's world...i go for a break..where?...siKwet...

=) today s jus a day i will surely miss when its tym agen to go back to my hubby's place...

ow...1 more thing...

THIS S JAS THINKING OUT RILLY LOUD...my immediate family lives hir n the phils..then at NJ, wer my hubby lives...there goes his immediate family too...then, how wud i address our place in my hubby's...hmmm...if i wud be mentioning our place in NJ...my home...our home...ow..there, sounds gud..OUR HOME...maybe that's better...but d yah think its gud enaf, if my co-household wud read it...is it non-offensive, co-owning there hub? hmmm....hay...

ha ha ha ha...a filipino channel, abs-cbn 2, OK FINE WHATEVER! and there goes there show for 2day, friend-is there...(friendster?) and BAYANI(actor) mentioned its like a CHAT - chismis...its where pips talk about other's life..other's story...ha ha ha filipino attics...filipino at their best...=) jas remembering sumthin...yeah they may use internet to spread hatred and ugliness of one's person...i did fell for a false and unclear vision of using technology...but me using chat to tell other's ugliness..nah..no way...i love to chat to mah foes cuz we really r hapy and loves making fun even miles apart! PURE n SIMPLE pleasures...that's what i like bout mah friends...

then agen..... 

i am currently watching  

eating tym

loving this monay....

its so nice to have a bunch of  happy faces ....

celebrating(agen..take 2....) romart's 1st bday at the jollibee 4th level festical supermall at alabang muntinlupa philippines...was feel gud lyt and non toxic thing to have...

thanks for the greetings and warm welcome...we appreciate your presence!!!

to my son...more happiness and gud health baby!!!

love you so much....

i wont even know what to feel ryt now...

super occupied by my baby's tanrums these past 3 days...

y? coz he is having a bad time ryt now..caught a colds before his bday celeb...got a fever last nyt..and today..still with colds he got his 3rd front upper teeth..oh gosh...he never lets us put him down, always wanted him to be carried...i pity him coz i know toothache is so bad...and i cant do enithing for him...good relief i got a baby orajel...it helps him calm down and now soundly sleeping...

im just too tired now..later!

    ~ my hubby my 1yr old bebe boi romart and me ~

   ~ the celebrant and the proud mom ~

look here

i mean no harm..

kinda confused...

u think and tell everybody that im no good...saying lil bad traits i heb...but uh-ow...Y do u have to entrust your precious one to me or my family???...

hmmm...im kinda really think big..am i really bad? or u dont know delicadeza means?

but u know i am really lovin it...hu's BAD? me? and y i do BIG favors for u? or your family? is it a bad deed? is it hu do bad things?...

God works in a different way......watch out! and recollect!!!

its so cute..he got his very first studio portrait...=P

just wanna share with u...

spend the nyt here @ len n rommel's hub..

1st nyt away from hubby after a yr!!!

yup..this month marks our 1 whole yr together as hubby n wifey...we didnt spend everyday when wer on our 1st yr of marriage...

and after that, sleep is not quite complete without seeing my hubby when i close mah eyes an dopen it up for the morning...my baby had a nice sleep and the bed is cozy...

=) the sleepover  is gud...but i  missed mah hubby...

how could i write things that was just meant for myself and what im feeling

without somebody hu wud keep it against themselves???

stop reading my live journals...so not to keep yourself out of GUILT!!!!

i need to free my mind...but i shut mah mouth just not to be hurtful...but im killing my emotions...and its too painful for me not to just blow it out!!!